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Kevin Ott
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posted 10-29-2000 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kevin Ott   Click Here to Email Kevin Ott     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My name is Kevin, and I have really lousy credit.

I do. At least, I assume I do. I haven't applied for a credit card or made a major purchase in the past few years other than buying my car, but for that I had someone co-sign on the GMAC loan just to be on the safe side. Truthfully, I'm afraid to find out.
And that's my problem with debt and credit: It scares the living hell out of me. It's the rejection. I just can't deal with that sort of rejection.

I have about $20,000 worth of student loan debt and, as of now, just under $800 worth of credit card debt left over from college. It's manageable, but it's frightening, especially on a reporter's salary. Sometimes it seems that the only way out is an honorable death.

But Pattie's right. The key is to know the enemy before you get into the situation, which is sort of my problem. I was never as dimwitted as some of the people that she describes (that number-of-checks-in-the-checkbook thing was a doozy), but I did get into my student loan with not much of a clue. All I knew was that I was going to college and that I'd have to pay part of the bill after I'd graduated.

Now, I'm dealing with a company that doesn't process paperwork in a manner that's even remotely timely, and sometimes doesn't even process it at all. There's not much of an online presence, there's no way to pay bills over the phone, and when I call, I'm commonly put on hold for upwards of thirty minutes.

Here's what I think: The process involved in paying off debt should be comparable in difficulty to the process of incurring the debt. My credit card debt is being paid off at a lightning pace, since my credit union allows me to access all things financial over the phone. Consequently, when I notice that I have a few extra bucks in my account, I pick up the phone and drop some into my VISA, so I'm that far ahead of my monthly payments. If it were that easy with my student loans, I'd be a happier boy.
But no. I've got to send the monthly payment in with the monthly pay stub, via snail mail, and Sallie Mae has to cash the check, which she takes her time in doing. (If they're such sticklers for fiscal punctuality, they should cash the damn check right away). If Sallie Mae would communicate with my credit union, this would be an unhappy memory.

I know - I sound like a big baby. But the simple fact is, I want to pay my bills. It makes me feel good, and it gives me the opportunity to impersonate an actual grown-up. I just want paying bills to be as easy as possible. And I think other folks would agree with me. Nobody likes paying bills, and I'm not talking about the money end of it. I'm talking about the part where you sit down and write out checks and fill out return addresses on envelopes and write little tiny numbers in your checkbook. It's about as exciting as watching dental surgery, or Once & Again starring Sela Ward. And if you're like me, when you're done, you don't feel any great sense of accomplishment.

If we're going to abstract money, let's do it in both directions. Debtors want their money back, and as any child support coordinator can tell you, sending the dogs after someone can only get you so far. Banks and loan servicing companies would be better served by modernizing the payback process and making the process of paying bills as easy as possible.

As a postscript: I think that Pattie and I have initiated some sort of unspoken competition to see who can mention Regis Philbin the most times in any one edition. Really. Look it up.

Another postscript: Regis Philbin Regis Philbin Regis Philbin.

Dave Thomer
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posted 10-29-2000 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Thomer   Click Here to Email Dave Thomer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The key thing in all the statistics Pattie points out, I think, is the lack of awareness of just how much debt costs. I know when I realized just how much a 20 percent APR meant I was paying just in interest, I wanted to cry. I wonder if it might be worthwhile to push for an addition to credit card statements. Next to the minimum payment box, you could have a little chart saying how long it will take to pay off the current debt and what the total interest will be. I know debt reduction plans in personal finance software like Quicken can do this for you, but not everyone's using such software yet, and it just seems ridiculous that people don't know what they're getting into, or what they have gotten into.
And maybe this should go in the Public Policy section, but does it seem unreasonable to ask that something like a minor course in personal finance be added to the high school curriculum? I mean, stock picking contests are nice, but the last thing we need is a bunch of people going to college, getting their first credit cards, and then maxing them out to buy tech stocks on margin.

Speaking of Quicken, that point about the abstracting of money is dead on. With direct deposit, I have no real connection to my money, and so it doesn't surprise me that I look up and what little I had is gone, without even a Star Wars figure to show for it.

Jen Mussi
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posted 11-06-2000 11:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jen Mussi   Click Here to Email Jen Mussi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice story Pattie.

I too think it is important to educate young people in personal finance management. I am creating a new program at the urban university where I work to help graduating seniors in the transition from college life into the post-college world. One of the program areas includes a seminar on personal finance. We will discuss everything from taxes to retirement plans, repaying college loans and figuring out all those deductions on your first paycheck. I am hoping to offer this same seminar to underclassmen in the future. While a small effort, I believe this type of program will help college graduates in that first year on their own.

While the numbers indicate a significant portion of young Americans are in significant consumer debt, I believe there are many young people out there who are learning to manage their finances well and have not abused their credit cards. I know a fair number of twenty-somethings who have already started planning for their retirement by investing in 401 (k), 403 (b) and IRAs while repaying higher education loans.

Again, nice story Pattie.

[This message has been edited by Jen Mussi (edited 11-06-2000).]

Pattie Gillett
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posted 11-07-2000 07:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jen, While it's a small effort, it's a big step in the right direction. A lot of peoiple may be surprised to find out that one of the questions most often asked about bankruptcy is "will it make my student loans go away?"
You know as well as I do that many people sign those loan papers when they start college having absolutely no idea what they mean. I'm glad there are people like you out there to reinforce that being an adult means having larger responsibilities.
In planning your sessions, you might want to stop by The Whiz.com at http://thewhiz.snap.com It's a terrific personal finance site aimed at young people. The articles are very entertaining and informative. I like it because they focus on long-term saving and budgeting, downplaying the sexiness of the stock market and other things that may be financial traps for young people.

Jen Mussi
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posted 11-07-2000 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jen Mussi   Click Here to Email Jen Mussi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the suggestions Pattie. I will certainly add them to the program. You are invited to attend the session and share your knowledge with the students, but I understand if your schedule does not permit. I will keep you posted on the development of the program. Thanks!

Kevin Ott
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posted 11-07-2000 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kevin Ott   Click Here to Email Kevin Ott     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There's a group called Students In Free Enterprise -- it's one of those nationwide groups, with chapters at like a zillion colleges. The chapter at Mount Aloysius College in Cresson, PA is currently getting ready to teach classes in high schools, specifically aimed at introducing students to the world of fiscal responsibility, similar to the program that Jen is starting.

It's nice to know there are so many efforts to show college-bound folks how to manage the boring parts of being a grown-up. Dave and I went to the same high school, and as far as I remember, there was no program like that offered to us. Dave?

Dave Thomer
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posted 11-07-2000 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Thomer   Click Here to Email Dave Thomer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The closest thing that Holy Ghost Prep had to any kind of personal finance course was an Economics elective that was available to seniors, taught by one of the priests, which I took because I was a social studies geek in high school. (No, really?) It mostly covered macroeconomics and issues that would confront a business. We did learn about things like annual percentage yield and rate along with compound interest, but I don't remember learning about how ridiculous rates that credit cards charged or, conversely, the power of investing in the stock market over a period of decades. Maybe we did, but if we did, it was so briefly that it flew over my head. Now, granted high school was almost eight years ago, but I still remember all sorts of stuff about money supply and Bretton Woods institutions and agribusiness, so you'd think I'd remember something about learning to balance a checkbook.

slgorman
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posted 11-07-2000 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slgorman   Click Here to Email slgorman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my public high school, we were all required to take Economics in senior year (one semester course). I distinctly remember learning how to balance a checkbook, stock info (including the crash, the benefits of staying in, history), and I know we had to write a term paper if we wanted a grade higher than a C (hence the name, A/B paper). I know I got an A (damn, that B in typing sophomore year and how it ruined my perfect GPA!) but for the life of me, I cannot recall what I wrote my A/B paper on. Obviously, I learned a lot in that class. For the record, I am into the double digits (hey, don't laugh) since high school. Can I blame it on my memory, yet?

I love the idea of bringing practical, immediately useful information to high schoolers and early college age students. From what I've seen, they could use it!

I learned much of my knowledge of practical economics from my childhood. I grew up a middle child in a single-parent home. We were constantly short on money (surprised, much?) so I learned at an early age how to budget, balance a checkbook, and "squeeze the life out of nickel better than anyone" you'll have met. Additionally, my mother was divorced from my father in the age of being Mrs. Husbandslastname meant you had no credit history on your own, only as an extension of your husband. My mom didn't have a credit card until a few years after *I* was in college and already had some of my own!

Not a highly recommended way to learn these lessons, I admit. Yet, it was useful information in the long run.

[This message has been edited by slgorman (edited 11-07-2000).]

Jen Mussi
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posted 11-07-2000 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jen Mussi   Click Here to Email Jen Mussi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Kevin Ott:
[B]There's a group called Students In Free Enterprise --

Thanks for the tip Kevin. I will add this organization to my research list.

Pattie Gillett
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posted 11-08-2000 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey sl, nice use of the quote there. Didn't think I'd miss that, did you?
Jen, I'd be honored to drop by, just name the time and place.
If you ask around, you'll probably get many people willing to "talk to your students' under the guise of getting them to open an account somewhere. I know that you'll be able to spot these people a mile away, but just so you know. As I said in my article, I'll be happy to tackle 'em for you.
That reminds me, be sure to show your kids how to understand the thin line between "financial advisor" and "salesman."
A little free advice can be expensive. BTW, if anyone's concerned that I'm using this forum to drum up sales of my own, I work for a non-profit with a very limited target audience. You're all safe from my marketing efforts. I leave those at work, I'm dealing in theory here.

[This message has been edited by Pattie Gillett (edited 11-08-2000).]

Dave Thomer
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posted 03-18-2001 09:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Thomer   Click Here to Email Dave Thomer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm trying to follow this bankruptcy reform legislation, and I'm really not sure what side to take. I definitely don't think people should be allowed to repeatedly declare bankruptcy . . . but I can understand why it's something people might need recourse to. I'm not sure I have the expertise to judge on this one -- anyone else been following it and have any thoughts?

Pattie Gillett
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posted 03-19-2001 06:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bankrate.com, which I check religiously for the competition's rates gave the following run-down on the key points of the bill. It's a good starting point. Also read the main story that accompanies this rundown. it gives a good breakdown of the differences between Chapter 7 and Chapter 13 bankruptcies.

As for me, I can't help but bit a little wary about how these changes will effect people who really and truly need to file for bankruptcy, such as those saddled with enormous medical bills (Hello, health care reform). When I read about much influence the big banks and credit card companies had in moving this bill along, and by influence I mean they wrote the damn thing, I have to wonder who it will really serve in the long run.

Yes, I'm all for people taking responsibility for their spending but, as someone who's written credit solicitations, I think we should also talk about banks taking responsibility for aggressive marketing.

[This message has been edited by Pattie Gillett (edited 03-19-2001).]

Pattie Gillett
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posted 03-19-2001 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just can't seem to shut up about this, I know, but I live and breath this stuff for most of the day; you can't expect me to just turn it off.

One of the provisions in this bill that I hope stays put is the requirement that credit card issuers tell the card holder exactly how long it will take to pay off their debt if they pay only the minimum balance. Now, if that figure was on your monthly statement, wouldn't you rethink your payment habits?

Kevin Ott
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posted 03-20-2001 12:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kevin Ott   Click Here to Email Kevin Ott     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Totally. With all $345,867,980,167,932.12 of my debt, I always make it a point to pay more than the minimum, even if it's just a buck or two. I mean, if I pay just $10 a month over my minimum car payment each month, that's a couple of payments ahead I'll be at the end. If I had something like Pattie describes here, I'd even forego a CD or DVD purchase, or lunch out, or something else, just to pay the debt off that much quicker.

Pattie Gillett
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posted 03-20-2001 06:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Kev. with that debt figure, you're only slightly below the national average or collage grads in your age bracket.

Dave Thomer
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posted 03-21-2001 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Thomer   Click Here to Email Dave Thomer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like this one:

quote:
Requires bank regulators to study whether credit card companies are offering credit indiscriminately, without regard to whether consumers can repay their debt, and whether the resulting debt is contributing to bankruptcies;

They're required to study it. Not necessarily to do anything about it, mind you, but to study it.

That said, I'm hard-pressed to find anything that's particularly onerous in this list of reforms. I'm sure there's more that can be done, but as a start, this doesn't strike me as half bad. I particularly like the increase in priority for alimony and child support debts and the requirement that the declarer of bankruptcy attend a personal finance management training course. Sure would be nice if we could get people into those courses before they declare bankruptcy, but hey.

In other news: I paid off the last of my credit cards today. Unfortunately, the money to do so came from a student loan. Still, I'd rather be in hock to the government than to the credit card companies. And now that all my cards have zero balances, I'm going to be that much more motivated to keep it that way. (The flip side of that is that I might desensitized to student loan debt; however, I'll be out of school soon, so that's much less of an issue.)

Pattie Gillett
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posted 03-23-2001 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, well credit card interest is not tax deductible while student loans are . . . God, it's five on a Friday and I still can't turn this off. I should see a doctor about this.

Dave Thomer
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posted 04-04-2001 01:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Thomer   Click Here to Email Dave Thomer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Perhaps there's a shot or a pill or something . . . which may also be tax-deductible.

Seriously, I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing to be aware of how the system works. Lord knows it takes its opportunities to beat you down, if you can figure out how to make it work for you, go for it.

Although I do have fears of a never-ending spiral of student-loan deferrments . . . fortunately, I think there's someone I share this office with who is aware of the pitfalls of heavy debt that will be sure to prevent that.

Dave Thomer
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posted 04-09-2001 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Thomer   Click Here to Email Dave Thomer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Sunday Inquirer had a bunch of good stories about debt, repayment, the gouging people take on credit card interest, and so on. It's available online free for the next week; the main article is here.

Pattie Gillett
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posted 10-02-2001 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Need a good deed for the day? Tell someone you know who is in the military reserves about the Soldiers and Sailors Relief Act (originally passed in 1940 and updated in 1994).

This purpose of this act is provide financial relief for those who are called to military duty overseas. When a member of the armed forces is called to duty the act:

- Bars evictions, when the rented housing costs less than $1,200 per month.

- Prevents default judgments for failure to appear in court in lawsuits and trials.

- Stays civil proceedings.

- Caps interest rates on pre-existing loans - including mortgages, credit cards and personal loans -- to 6 percent (for the duration of the time of service).

This last one in particular has the potential to help many reservists make ends meet at home, especially since most have to forgo their regular salaries in order to receive their military pay (which is usually much lower).

The problem is, while all financial intuitions have to comply if a soldier requests the reduced rate, very few actually advertise the service. It's up to the soldier to be aware of the law and send copies of their paperwork to their lenders in order to get the rate. Now, I know of people who've served in the reserves for decades who have never heard of this Act so it's clear that they are not being informed from the military leadership either.

Bottom line, if you know someone who has already been or may be called to service in the coming weeks, tell them about this act and encourage them to get their finances in order before they leave.

Many Desert Storm soldiers returned from their tours and found their finances in ruins. Some had to declare bankruptcy. That's no reward for serving your country.

More information on reservists' rights is available here.

Pattie Gillett
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posted 12-05-2001 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tonight's Main Event: bankers vs. lawyers.

Banks and other financial institutions are complaining that this year's spike in bankruptcy filings (up 14% since last year) is not just recession-related. It's thanks to some heavy advertising by bankruptcy attorneys who are urging people to file before Congress enacts legislation that makes it tougher for consumers to discharge their debts completely.

Gotta love those lawyers - when the world hands them lemons . . .

For the record, any spike in bankruptcies really hurts small financial institutions like neighborhood banks and credit unions. These, by the way, are the ones most likely to offer low-cost services with little or no fees. It means that they have to find the money to make up for those bad accounts somewhere - either by raising fees or raising loan rates. So, on that note, the banks are right, we all pay for bankruptcy in some way or another.

But I will say this, I'm still getting no fewer than 10 credit card solicitations per month. I guess we're all paying for those, too.

Dave Thomer
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posted 01-23-2002 01:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Thomer   Click Here to Email Dave Thomer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm reminded of Dave Barry discussing how he was concerned because it seemed like the entire US economy was being propped up by new Visa cards being sent to his wife. As he said, "She is just one person. That is the law."

I have no idea how it happened, but I have more credit than I know what to do with right now. If I used it all, I would quickly go bankrupt trying to afford the payments. I can't see how the credit card companies think this makes sense.

Pattie Gillett
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posted 01-23-2002 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
At twenty-three and twenty-four percent interest - it makes a ton of cents!

Sorry, you left that open for me.

Even in a financial institution as small as mine, I see that what happens to all those accounts once they are on the books is someone else's problem. There's a marketing department whose job is to bring in as many new accounts as possible. They let the collections dept. worry about the fraud and the bad (unpaid) accounts. Somewhere in this the CFO makes allowances and estimates for all of it.

Meanwhile, the executives and the lawyers lobby Washington to make sure it's harder for people to file for bankruptcy and soon all their bases are covered.

Sorry, I got out of the cynical side of the bed this morning.

Pattie Gillett
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posted 01-31-2002 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
FYI, this is how I've seen credit card solicitations work:

A credit card company buys a huge list of names, addresses and corresponding credit scores from someone - often the credit reporting agencies themselves.

They set a cut-off point of the lowest score they will accept (this varies widely), ax off anyone below that score, and, perhaps run some internal check on the list to make sure that no one left on the list has defrauded them in the recent past. Then they do one big-ass mail merge in which they laser print your name in caps in twenty different places on an otherwise generic four-color mail piece and send it out - at a special bulk mailing rate, I might add.

There's no other cross-checking involved and certainly not with other companies. The magic number is your credit score. That's what determines if you get 20 solicitations or none. Do they care that if you do receive 20 of these a month and if you did answer YES to them all, you could fund Bush's Missile Defense Plan solely on plastic - not really.

Earl Green
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posted 02-12-2002 01:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Earl Green   Click Here to Email Earl Green     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now, ya wanna hear something cute? A local bank is offering "bounce-proof checking." What this means is that when you overdraw, you automatically invoke a kind of mini-loan from the bank - with a ludicrously high interest rate - but they cover the check for you. Of course, that's buried in the microscopic small print.

My wife checked into this and our horror grew as we read the non-B.S., non-hype fine print at the bottom of the back page of the brochure. Then again, I wasn't seriously tempted to take this bank up on it since I had left them over their seemingly random NSF charges a couple of years ago.

Sometimes I think I could line the cats' litterbox with dollar bills and it would do me about as much good as it would if I threw it at high-interest loans or credit cards.

Pattie Gillett
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posted 02-13-2002 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The financial institution where I work offers a similar product. It is indeed a Line of Credit that is attached to your checking account that prevents you from going negative and incurring an NSF fee (ours is $25 a pop, actually below the national average but still in ludicrous range). The interest rate on whatever funds you do end up using if you dip into this LOC is 15%, above our other rates but that's the point. We set it so people are deterred from just viewing the LOC as another source or cash, rather than just for emergencies - (which, believe me, they would do). It's frankly more lucrative for us if they used our credit card to make a purchase or get quick cash than if they dipped into their LOC for the cash. The rate on the credit card is 11.9% (but we make it up in fees from VISA).

Of course, since my credit union also allows free overdrafts to your savings account to cover up to three transactions per month from your checking - I just use that - and make sure that I keep a little extra in my savings in case I misjudge how much is in my checking. See if you can find a bank to do that and ixnay the high-rate LOC altogether.

slgorman
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posted 02-13-2002 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slgorman   Click Here to Email slgorman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pattie, that's exactly what I did when I opened up new savings and checking accounts. My bank will let you link the two for purposes of bank card/ATM use and overdraft protection for free, so it was kind of a no brainer.

Moving back to the land of one income has made me keenly aware of not ruining my credit. Which has proven more difficult than I first thought. I'm so used to two incomes to spend, and I have this sick need to escape reality by shopping for my new apartment. Bad combination.

Pattie Gillett
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posted 02-13-2002 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sl, to help avoid temptation (and find other useful information) I advise visiting bankrate.com. Aside from rate comparisons, there are some interesting and very practical articles on personal finance including a very useful "Cost of . . ." column that calculates the real cost (over time) that everyday things will cost you such as joining a gym or paying only the minimum on your credit cards.

It's a worth a look. I use it weekly to do rate comparisons for work and I invariably end up spending more time on the site reading all the articles.

BTW, is anyone else pissed that the spellchecker is no longer free?

Dave Thomer
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posted 08-17-2002 05:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Thomer   Click Here to Email Dave Thomer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK, the Chutzpah of the Week award goes to the owner of this site, which essentially is asking for donations to help a woman pay off her credit card debt because she's nice. I caught 30 seconds of this on the Today show today, and I would not believe it if I did not see it with my own eyes.

And then, of course, there is the inevitable backlash.

Pattie Gillett
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posted 08-18-2002 12:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK, can I just say that the people who have "helped" Karen pay the cc finance charges on her BCBG leather bags ans such are probably the same people who would moan about welfare recipients and other social programs that do things like feed children and find affordable health care for families?

No, I'm not bitter at all.

Andrew Wester
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posted 08-18-2002 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Andrew Wester   Click Here to Email Andrew Wester     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wonder if I told people I had $100,000 in student loans accumulated if they would do the same thing for me?

Dave Thomer
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posted 08-19-2002 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Thomer   Click Here to Email Dave Thomer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To heck with the student loans, will they get me a mortgage?

slgorman
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posted 08-28-2002 01:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slgorman   Click Here to Email slgorman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was so miffed at that Karyn "woman" I was incapable of forming a cohesive thought (besides yelling until I was hoarse, that is) and then I saw what Sars had to say about Karyn:
quote:
It's called "personal responsibility," Karyn. Look into it. Then look into "shame," "shutting the fuck up," and "apologizing to all the hard-working owners of struggling businesses who refuse to resort to this sort of whiny, disgusting pandering to get us out of a tight spot because we aren't five fucking years old." God.


Yeah, that's what I was thinking (while yelling, of course).

On other financial fronts, I'm waiting anxiously for word from the Finanacial Aid Gods about the potential for any cash flow my way. Exactly what does Emily Post have to say about when is the proper time period before I call up the Financial Aid office in desparation?

Dave Thomer
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posted 08-28-2002 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Thomer   Click Here to Email Dave Thomer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know about Emily Post, but I brought Alex down to Temple yesterday topay a visit to the financial aid folks with about a week to go before the official start of the semester. "See this cute baby? How could you not want to help speed her daddy's loan application through?"

slgorman
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posted 08-28-2002 11:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slgorman   Click Here to Email slgorman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I went down there a few weeks ago, which turned out to be the smartest thing I've done in ages. They needed a signature on the copy of my taxes (see, you file electronically, you forget to actually sign the copy you keep--well, you do that if you're me and you're stupid), and it turned out to be a boon because my info was very confusing due to my divorce. Since I went in person I could explain the numbers (which were quite conflicting mainly because the directions on the form required them to be) and the whole situation and the timeline. How scary is this--the financial aid counselor told me that they will want copies of my divorce paper work when it's final. Turns out people actually file for divorce fraudulently to qualify for financial aid.

Pattie Gillett
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posted 08-28-2002 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pattie Gillett   Click Here to Email Pattie Gillett     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now I have heard everything!

BTW, what's the latest on that Internet panhandler chick?

Andrew Wester
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posted 08-28-2002 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Andrew Wester   Click Here to Email Andrew Wester     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just checked her site and she is down to $7868.18. She started with a total debt of $20,21.40 nine weeks ago.

I wish some of those suckers would give some money to me.

Andrew Wester
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posted 08-28-2002 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Andrew Wester   Click Here to Email Andrew Wester     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oops, thats $20,221.40 starting debt

slgorman
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posted 08-29-2002 12:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slgorman   Click Here to Email slgorman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cannot believe that people would be so dumb to give her money. I mean acutal human beings are starving to death.

I think the financial aid counselor could have told some stories that would have the phoney divorce thing beat. I didn't want my virginal ears damaged by hearing them, so I didn't ask.

Dave Thomer
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posted 08-29-2002 04:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dave Thomer   Click Here to Email Dave Thomer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That does it. I'm setting up sendalextocollege.com next week.


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